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Happy Monday! It’s been a while since I’ve updated. So, who all saw the Real Housewives of New Jersey reunion part three last night? I thought it was crazy. Kim D. finally told the truth. Teresa is still lying. Next Sunday is the lost footage episode. I’m excited to see that. I hear that there is going to be a season five. Mob Wives fans, you’re in luck! Season three is coming in January. So excited for that! I haven’t gotten around to watch The Vampire Diaries yet. I do have it on DVR. I’ll watch it later tonight. Along with last nights 666 Park Avenue. I finally got around to buying Elle & Blair Fowler’s debut novel, Beneath the Glitter. I’m only on chapter two. I bought my own copy of Perks of Being a Wallflower so I can read it whenever. I actually never got to finish it when I borrowed it from the library. I also bought a new journal for my lyrics. It’s Chinese leather with Chinese art on the cover. I’ve been doing a lot of shopping lately, and I’ve been doing a boy cleanse, meaning I’m done with dating for a while until I can get back on my dating game. So, I’m just going to be hanging out with good friends and family and enjoying the single life. So, update tomorrow? We’ll see…

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So, why do people think they have the right to say who’s pretty and who’s ugly? Everyone is beautiful in their own way. They do not have to change for anyone. The only person they should be changing is for themselves. If they do not want to change, awesome. It means they like who they are. Do not force someone to change. They are their own person and can do things their way. Let them live their life their way.

So, I know I just posted yesterday, but I’m going to post again now. I’m watching this past Sundays 666 Park Avenue episode. This show is truly addicting. Next, I have last Thursdays Jersey Shore, Switched at Birth, and Gossip Girl. Oh, and Hollywood Heights. That’ll leave just movies on my DVR. Like I said before, if you want to see what I’m currently reading, follow me on Instagram; I’m hausofsamantha. I may just follow you back. I have to go to the library today to return a bunch of stuff and pick up some stuff.  Yes, I think I might be the only one still going to the library. I, also, have to look over some work that I have just lying around. Yeah, I think I’ve been putting it off too long.

So, I’m going to go and there might be a new post tomorrow. We’ll see…

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When people say that whatever we decide to do, make sure it makes us happy, it makes me question them a little bit. When we decide to, let’s say, become a writer, they start to judge us. Why say that when you’re going to complain about the career we’ve chosen? It irks me a bit. Why can’t they just be happy with whatever we choose to do in life? I’m pretty sure that people have done the same to you. Think before you say something to someone. Let them be happy with whatever they’ve chosen.

Besides that, Happy Columbus Day! Gossip Girl is back tonight at 9/8c on the CW. Switched at Birth is on tonight at 8/7c on ABC Family. Also, if you did not get a chance to watch Hollywood Heights, the encore starts tonight at 10/9c on TeenNick and they will show every episode leading up to the finale. The Vampire Diaries premieres this Thursday on the CW. Excited for that! And right after TVD premieres, the brand new show Beauty and the Beast will premiere. I may check it out and see if I like it. Then, Jersey Shore at 10/9c on MTV. Real Housewives of New Jersey was insane last night. I really think Joe is cheating on Teresa. Teresa’s kids are so disrespectful to Melissa it’s not even funny. Melissa treats them so well and she gets nothing in return. I think Melissa is amazing! She deserves everything. Next Sunday shall be really interesting because it’s Joe vs. Joe. Bring on the popcorn!

So, I’m going to go now and get some stuff at the store and relax while my shows are recording for tonight. New post tomorrow? We’ll see…

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Hello there. So, I’m just watching Hollywood Heights. I think they should put up a marathon starting from the first episode up until now. I started watching it and then I just stopped. I’ve also been doing a lot of work lately. From fashion to my novel. It’s exhausting! I think I need a vacation. Tonight is the final season of Jersey Shore. Make sure you tune in at 10/9c on MTV for the TWO-HOUR premiere. Also, Glee’s break-up episode is on tonight as well. I’ve been hearing from sources that Finchel will be breaking up, but who knows? Watch it tonight at 9/8c on FOX to see who breaks-up. Also, Naya Rivera will be covering Taylor Swift’s hit song, “Mine”. Can’t wait for that! From what I’ve heard, Naya sounds amazing! Make sure you purchase it on iTunes as well as the rest of the songs from tonight’s episode. I’m actually going to go on SoundCloud to listen to some up-and-coming DJ’s to send to my uncle. I’m going food shopping today. I may as well make some tea or coffee. So, new post tomorrow? We’ll see…

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Hello there. So, I’m just sitting here, drinking my morning coffee and ready to head out to my fabulous job. I saw last nights Real Housewives of New Jersey reunion part one. Crazy!! Did anyone hear Rosie towards the end of the reunion? Oh my gosh. Kathy told Teresa off like crazy! No one likes Teresa. I wouldn’t say no one, but the four fabulous ladies sure don’t like her. I recorded 666 Park Avenue. I have yet to see it. I’ll watch it sometime this week. I’ve got Switched at Birth tonight, and Glee this Thursday, and the final season of Jersey Shore this Thursday. All week is a Jersey Shore marathon. Who’s watching? I know am! I’ve met Ronnie, and he’s nice. I would love to meet DJ Pauly D. I have the biggest crush on him. I mean, he follows me on Twitter. And yes, if you want to follow me on Twitter, I’m SamanthaStCloud. I have been reading Love Letters of Great Men. Sex and the City fans may know this book. Yes, they actually sell this book. Go buy it! After that book, looking over books about the Roaring Twenties for my novel. Well, new blog tomorrow? We’ll see…

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Well, hello there. I’m just sitting here, watching Bridesmaids and drinking English tea whilst reading Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter. You can actually catch my little book list thing on Instagram; my username is hausofsamantha. I will follow you back. So, I’m suppose to go out for breakfast tomorrow and then shopping. I had an interview today at Hearst. It went well! I’m actually wearing UGGs right now. Don’t hate on them! They’re comfy. I love them. They’re so much better than crocs. But, um, anyway, I’m trying to figure out what to wear tomorrow. Maybe I’ll just wear jeans and a nice blouse. I don’t know. I’ll see. Also, I put in an application for TOMS Shoes. I’m praying that I get the position. I love that company so much. Anyway, my friends and I are making silicon bracelets for Breast Cancer Awareness. We’re in the midst of thinking of some slogans to put on the bracelets. We definitely hope you guys will buy some to help out. The money will be donated to a breast cancer foundation. I just watched Glee from this past Thursday and I’m a little pissed off with Brody. I may not be a Finchel fan, but I just want them to stay together for Finchel fans’ sake. I’m happy Blaine and Sam, or Blam, won the presidential. Also, I’m all caught up with Switched at Birth. I really hope that Bay and Emmett get back together. I love them. I saw the Real Housewives of New Jersey finale, and I am stunned! Kim D. set them all up. She’s a good liar. As for Teresa, she’s still a liar and a phony. How could she do that to her own brother? I mean, that’s your brothers’ wife, your sister-in-law! I would be livid with Teresa and Kim, too, if they did that to me. This Sunday is the reunion special and I can’t wait to see what’s going to happen! Anyway, I’m going to go. I’ve got work to finish up and some reading. Update tomorrow? We’ll see…

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I’m sorry that I haven’t updated since June. I’ve been really busy lately. So, it’s Autumn and I love the smell of it. Autumn always makes me want to bake cookies with friends, cuddle up and watch movies, and read. Speaking of reading, I’ve been reading so much lately, too. I just finished this book called Belles by Jen Calonita. It’s really good. It’s a good book for those high school girls out there. I read it because she wrote Secrets of My Hollywood Life, which I loved. I’ve also been into the Roaring Twenties. I’ve took out books about it and it’s for research, too. I’m writing a novel. Besides that, I went to New York Fashion Week and I am loving what I am seeing. It’s Milan Fashion Week, and I’m loving it more. Besides that, too, I’ve made up with my high school best friend and I’ve never been anymore happier. I’ve been hooked on Throat Coat tea, which is suppose to soothe your throat and voice. I just got an email that Seventeen Magazine might publish my article, and that they might hire me. Can’t wait to see what else is in store for me! Anyway, I promise to be on more. Maybe an update tomorrow? We’ll see… And I am sorry for such a short update. Please forgive me, okay? Next time, it’ll be much longer.

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So,  when we’re little we were supposed to believe that age old tale that if a guy makes fun of you, he likes you. Honestly, I don’t believe that because if he likes you, he’ll let you know in his own special way, not by making fun of you in a bullying kind of way. Like, if he says he’ll call you,  he’ll make the effort to call you. He’ll get off his lazy ass and call you to see if you’d like to go out with him. It’s basic logic. If he wants to go on a date with you, he’ll ask you out. This works vice versa. The answer? Be patient. Because  if he really wants to go on a date with you, he’ll make an effort to ask you out. Or the other way around.  So, why is that guys like to play mind tricks, but when it comes to girls and mind tricks, they get all confused? Guys need to learn a lesson of mind tricks. When they say “I don’t deserve you” or “I’m gonna be so jealous of the guy who marries you”, remember that that could’ve been you, sweetie. You know, the one that’s treating us right and holding us tight. Those are the mind tricks that you men play with us, but you don’t even notice because you’re too focused on having sex with us. See, men are just as confusing as we are, but both don’t even seem to notice it.

Can you really change for a guy if you really love him? Well, people say don’t ever change for a guy, but if you really love the guy and he really loves you, but he just doesn’t like that one habit of yours, try and stop that habit. Whether it’s smoking, drinking, doing drugs, or simple as cursing, try and stop those habits of yours. Unfortunately, some people can’t stop those habits and prefer to find someone who can actually live with those bad habits. So, there’s two ways. One way is to stop your habit if you both really love each other. The second way is to find someone who will put up with your habits.  I’ve been there. That’s why I don’t want to be in a relationship again just yet.  But yes, those are your two ways.

Why do guys call us sluts when we cheat but when they cheat it’s okay? Honestly, I have no answer. But it does upset me how we get called sluts and when guys do it, it’s okay. Cheating is never okay. It’s usually never the answer as well. Men, you should think twice what you call us because that means when you guys cheat, we have the ultimate right to call you a name. The answer is to basically think twice what you call girls because it’s not okay when you cheat, too.

Why do married men go out and act like they’re single? Is it because they can’t commit or do they just miss the single life? Here’s some advice to all married men: if you can’t commit, don’t be in a relationship and stick to being single. It doesn’t matter if you’re the only one in your group who’s not married. At least you can hook up all you want when they have to go to work, go home, and have a beer while watching the game. Be proud that you’re single. The same goes to girls. Getting married isn’t all about the ring, the dress, or whatever. It’s about love. Ah, love. Good old love.  If you can’t commit, stay single until you’ve finally found the one that you really love.  Truth is, I can’t even be in a relationship if the guy is all about marriage. I can’t even handle marriage. It’s not that I’m scared of commitment, it’s that I’m scared of – maybe that’s it. Yeah, maybe I am scared of commitment, and that’s okay because there are some people who can’t take commitment.

Can we still be in love even if the significant other is abusive? Yes, and that’s fine, but sweetie, you can’t be in that relationship. Abusive relationships are not fun. Call your parents, your friends, the police.  You cannot afford to be abused. You need to pack your bags and get your ass out of there immediately. No one deserves to be in an abusive relationship. I’ve never been in one, but I know some girls who have been in an abusive relationship and it hurt me watching them get hurt. So, please, do all of your friends a favor and get the hell out of that relationship.

Is marriage really just a job or do you really need days off to relax? Well, it gets me thinking that marriage might not be a job, but it’s considered work. You have to put effort and make rules for each other. You have to design your own life. When people say that they’re taking a few days off from their marriage, it basically means that they’re going to have a sleepover at their friends’ or familys’ house to relax until they get back to themselves, you know? Now, I may not be married, but I know some people who are married who tell me that they take time off to calm down.

So, you’ve heard all of my opinions on everything. From marriage to the single life. I hope you take my words seriously. Especially if you live in New York because this city tends to have many married men looking for a good time. Make sure you look closely at who’s real and who’s fake as a Fendi purse on the street. No one deserves to be cheated on or hit on by someone who’s married.

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Being single in New York is every girls dream because it is said that this city has many men to look for. Well, that’s true, but most of them are either married or gay or just don’t know what to do with their lives. Or so I’ve seen in my twenty years. Some girls also come to New York to look for labels. As for me, I got my start on looking for labels at an early age. Now, I’m just looking for love day by day. I haven’t found love yet, but I’m still looking and I’m also letting love find me. Until that day comes when I’ve found true love, I’m going to enjoy being single.

I’ve noticed that a lot married couples have been getting divorced lately. Is this becoming a trend? Or are we just missing the single life that we’re not ready to be tied down just yet? But if you think that you’re missing the single, why did you get married in the first place? Is it because we think that we’re ready? But really, we’re not ready. We just want to believe that we are so that men can treat us special with a diamond. But what’s so special about being married? Isn’t basically just dating? But instead of going on dates, you’re committed for life. Maybe that’s why people are getting divorced. They don’t want to be committed for life. I wouldn’t mind being committed, but not for life. To me, being committed to life is like wearing the same shoes twice in one day, and I would never wear the same thing twice in one day. So, do us all a favor and stay single, if you can’t commit to life or if you can’t commit in general.

They say love is blind and it will take over your mind. Truth is, it’s true. When someone falls in love, they fall hard. Even if that person beats them, they still love them. Why? Why do we still love them even if they beat us? Is it because we love them so much we don’t want anyone else to have them? Or we just love them so much it hurts us right in the heart? I know it hurts, but you have to leave the relationship. No one wants to see you hurting, inside and out. Yes, you’re going to cry because you loved them so much, but that’s the point. You’re suppose to feel pain when you leave the person you once loved. When you meet someone else who might be the one, they’ll cure that pain. Trust me on this one. You’ll feel better when you meet the one who’ll cure that pain. For now, throw on that dress and those shoes and go out with the girls.

Whenever you see your ex, you wonder why you ever broke up. Or you wonder why you were ever in a relationship them. Sometimes, your ex could look good post break-up or they could look bad. When they look good, odds are you don’t look so great, right? Here’s a remedy: go on a shopping spree and buy some gorgeous clothes and beautiful shoes. Get that makeover. Go to a spa and relieve stress. You’ll feel even better than your ex. If your ex if looking bad, odds are you look great, right? Don’t fall for him at this point. They just want you back to look good. You’re better than that. You’re better than they are. You can have anyone else besides them.