Being single in New York is every girls dream because it is said that this city has many men to look for. Well, that’s true, but most of them are either married or gay or just don’t know what to do with their lives. Or so I’ve seen in my twenty years. Some girls also come to New York to look for labels. As for me, I got my start on looking for labels at an early age. Now, I’m just looking for love day by day. I haven’t found love yet, but I’m still looking and I’m also letting love find me. Until that day comes when I’ve found true love, I’m going to enjoy being single.
I’ve noticed that a lot married couples have been getting divorced lately. Is this becoming a trend? Or are we just missing the single life that we’re not ready to be tied down just yet? But if you think that you’re missing the single, why did you get married in the first place? Is it because we think that we’re ready? But really, we’re not ready. We just want to believe that we are so that men can treat us special with a diamond. But what’s so special about being married? Isn’t basically just dating? But instead of going on dates, you’re committed for life. Maybe that’s why people are getting divorced. They don’t want to be committed for life. I wouldn’t mind being committed, but not for life. To me, being committed to life is like wearing the same shoes twice in one day, and I would never wear the same thing twice in one day. So, do us all a favor and stay single, if you can’t commit to life or if you can’t commit in general.
They say love is blind and it will take over your mind. Truth is, it’s true. When someone falls in love, they fall hard. Even if that person beats them, they still love them. Why? Why do we still love them even if they beat us? Is it because we love them so much we don’t want anyone else to have them? Or we just love them so much it hurts us right in the heart? I know it hurts, but you have to leave the relationship. No one wants to see you hurting, inside and out. Yes, you’re going to cry because you loved them so much, but that’s the point. You’re suppose to feel pain when you leave the person you once loved. When you meet someone else who might be the one, they’ll cure that pain. Trust me on this one. You’ll feel better when you meet the one who’ll cure that pain. For now, throw on that dress and those shoes and go out with the girls.
Whenever you see your ex, you wonder why you ever broke up. Or you wonder why you were ever in a relationship them. Sometimes, your ex could look good post break-up or they could look bad. When they look good, odds are you don’t look so great, right? Here’s a remedy: go on a shopping spree and buy some gorgeous clothes and beautiful shoes. Get that makeover. Go to a spa and relieve stress. You’ll feel even better than your ex. If your ex if looking bad, odds are you look great, right? Don’t fall for him at this point. They just want you back to look good. You’re better than that. You’re better than they are. You can have anyone else besides them.